I am a full-figured woman, currently weighing apx 165 pounds. I stand 5' 8" in my bare feet (and I generally prefer to stand in my bare feet and not in any type of footwear), have hair that is somewhat short and is usually some shade of reddish brown. My eyes are brown and very expressive. My apparel is often fairly casual, as that is my comfort level, but if you're lucky I may wear a skirt (not mini) during your session. I adore well done foot worship and am far more likely to grant an extra favor (not sexual) if you are skilled with my very sensitive feet. I'm not about being a Bitch Goddess, not even in role play. I dominate for pleasure in my chosen lifestyle and as a professional mistress, and if I'm bitchy, I'm not pleased. I prefer to laugh, prr, or growl freely, but this doesn't mean that I'm not strict or a stickler for my Rules.

Domination is about control, but to achieve that another must be willing to give over that control. One way of doing so is to show respect. This is shown through mannerisms, actions, mode of speech, and body language. Arriving late for an appointment with me, or worse not showing up at all, is a way of saying that you are disrespectful of my time and, therefore, me. In my professional role I've chosen to avoid scat (feces), urine (any golden), trampling, heavy blood sports, genital/genital and oral/genital contact, branding and permanant piercing. Personal and legal issues aside, this is for the sake of health and safety. I also will not perform acts that I consider "humiliation", verbal or physical. Keep in mind that how each individual defines that word will be different and it is something we would need to discuss in depth prior to any play. What I consider embarrassment might be way over your limit for "humiliation", simply erotic or something inbetween. In a session with me you might experience any number of activities. These include, but are not necessarily limited to:  CBT from mild to severe, nipple play or torture, electrical play with a variety of implements and attachments, light to moderate rope bondage, restriction of movement, spanking with a wide variety of implements, caning (light to severe), tickling, physical and verbal teasing, light to moderate sensory deprivation, feminization ("forced" or eager), anal penetration ranging from a finger to fisting, urethral penetration, scrotal infusion, ball stretching, ball slapping and/or constriction, needle play, abrasion, hair gripping, face slapping, obedience training, interrogation, flogging from gentle to intense, whipping, corporal punishment, enemas, orgasm denial or control (orgasms are never guaranteed), laughter, emarrassment, and likely a few other things that aren't coming to mind at this moment. I do not condone abuse, which is not consensual, in any form. BDSM is, among other things, about respecting the limits of all involved participants. It is most assuredly not about victimizing, non-erotic sadism, partner abuse, child abuse, actual rape or any other morally repugnant act of violence toward another human being. If you're seeking information on what BDSM is and is not, whether from a professional viewpoint (lawyer, politician, police officer, journalist, therapist, etc) or personal, I urge you to check out the Erotic Power Exchange Information Center. Choose the "Tour" link. Privacy is something I feel strongly about, yours and mine, I would do nothing to jeopardize or infringe upon that. If your fantasies include some form of subtle public play, I will make every effort to see that it is a RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) event, not involving any unwitting or unprepared third party. You, however, may well be convinced that everyone is watching or knows! Safe words will be discussed and given prior to play and, in the event that you're gagged, you will have a safe gesture. Limits will be pushed only if mutually agreed upon. My pleasure is in crafting a dance that we will both find enjoyable. I am adamant about drugs and alcohol having no place in my BDSM activities, professional or personal. Because of this, if I believe you are under the influence of either, we will not continue. I want sharp wits and informed consent, not a submissive with dulled senses who might be unable to perceive their own limitations. I very seldom drink and do not touch illegal drugs nor knowingly allow them in my presence, including when the drug is already in someone's bloodstream. This is not negotiable. You should show me the respect of arriving for a play session clean of mind and body, inside and out. (Well, except prrhaps for those delightfully "dirty" fantasies!) Enough about me, if you're interested in a session, I wish to know more of you. I want to know what makes you tick, to learn which buttons to push to achieve my desired result. Fill out my checklist, be honest with yourself and with me. Even though we may not explore everything mentioned, it will help me choreograph a personalized dance for you by allowing me that view into your dark secrets, your fantasies. I ask again, Shall we dance?